Dear Sister Whitaker, You are hearby called to serve as a missionary of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. You are assigned to labor in the Hungary Budapest Mission. It is anticipated that you will serve for a period of 18 months. You should report to the Provo Missionary Training Center on Wednesday, March 19, 2014. You will prepare to preach the gospel in the Hungarian language.
Saturday, January 31, 2015
Wednesday, January 28, 2015
I'm sayin goodbye to Székesfehérvár! Sister Whitaker will be on her way to Eger tomorrow afternoon!!
Man,
transfer weeks! I think I'm finally getting used to transfer weeks!!
Packing and saying goodbyes, yeah that's never easy. Especially the last
one, but I feel like I've accomplished the things I needed here and I
have a new city waiting for me!
We had an overall
pretty good week. My companion and I decided to do consecration week and
that was a good opportunity for us to learn and improve in many aspects
of our works.
I think one of the biggest things that
happened this week is that we met with a guy (FM) who had been taught by
the missionaries once in 2010, but then he went on a trip and then
never reconnected with the missionaries. This guy that we met with has
been totally prepared. We were a little apprehensive to meet with him
because of well other matters but we met with him and it was probably
one of the best programs on my mission. FM just accepted everything we
had to say and had so many legitmate questions. He happened to not speak
Hungarian, but rather English so that actually made teaching even
easier. I felt the spirit so strong and we happened to teach him The
Restoration, The Plan of Salvation, a little bit of The Word of Wisdom
and Temple Marriage all in one lesson! I have never done that in a
single lesson before. This guy was literally just eating what we had to
say up. It was truly amazing. We hope we will be able to teach his
family, we set up to meet with him again and he said he'd talk to his
wife about meeting with us! Teaching FM was just a huge blessing in our
lives! Our zone goal was to find a family to teach, and as my companion
and I were getting discouraged because we had yet to find a family to
teach then FM comes to us and we start teaching his family. Blessings do
really come when we have faith in God and his ways.
We went to a Hockey game this past week! That was super cool! The Székesfehérvár hockey team is pretty good, although it's nothing like Hockey in America! Plus the safety glass around the rink, is really useless! The puck flew into the crowd like three times, luckily I don't think anybody was seriously injured but it was pretty intense!
Wow, this email is super lame...sorry! Next week will be good!
Sok Szeretettel,
Whitaker Nővér
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Wednesday, January 21, 2015
Friday, January 16, 2015
We went to our Branch President's house to eat and he has a rabbit and I
caught it.... Oh, and the marks on my face... well my companion and I
went on a morning run the other day and I was running and not paying
attention and I hopped up on this concrete wall while running and ran
straight into a tree branch... luckily it hit in the middle of my face
and didn't poke my eyes out. I was SUPER lucky. That's kind of what you
get for doing stupid things.
Wednesday, January 14, 2015
Monday, January 12, 2015
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Hey, I forgot to include this in my blog email.
NEW MISSION PRESIDENT: What an exciting weekend! I’m sure that, by now, you have heard the news - but just in case you haven’t, the Church announced the name of the Mission President who has been called to preside over the Hungary Budapest Mission beginning on or about July 1, 2015. . . József Szabadkai. President Szabadkai and Sister Adrienn Szabadkai live in Pécs. He will be the first Hungarian to serve as Mission President!
That
was an insert out of president's letter. We will be getting a new
mission president this year and he's hungarian.. Whaaat?!? Craazy right.
Just thought everyone would want to know that.
NEW MISSION PRESIDENT: What an exciting weekend! I’m sure that, by now, you have heard the news - but just in case you haven’t, the Church announced the name of the Mission President who has been called to preside over the Hungary Budapest Mission beginning on or about July 1, 2015. . . József Szabadkai. President Szabadkai and Sister Adrienn Szabadkai live in Pécs. He will be the first Hungarian to serve as Mission President!
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Sziasztok Drágaim!
What's upppp?!?
Dang, I feel like I haven't sent an actual email in forever! The
holidays were so busy, crazy good busy! Man, I feel like I have a lot of
catching up to do. I won't be able to write about everything but I will
write about as much as I can.
the
answers and we gave them to him. It was really good. That's something I
really love is when people have questions about our church. We
unfortunantly ran out of time, as he had other questions he wanted to
ask us, but we didn't have enough time to answer them all so we will be
meeting with him tonight too, and we are excited to talk to him about
his other questions.
I think I said this already, but
we meet with SI, our pünkosdi (pentacostal) investigator and we went to
his church a few weeks ago and it was a really good experience. I will
probably be transferred in a few weeks so I wanted to go back and say hi
all of our pentacostal friends again. Gosh, they are just a super nice
group of people. This time we took the two new elders and one of the
coolest members here in Székesfehérvár. It was such a good time. They
all greeted us like we were best friends and we even got puszi (kisses
on the cheeks-equivalent of a hug in America) by a few of the older
people. You know, you don't know these people, but they're so nice. I
just want to emphasize the importance of member missionary work again!!
It's super important. Bringing our investigators to church, or rather,
getting them to come is really hard, and when they do come we want them
to have nothing but a good positive experience. I would just encourage
all of you, if you see a new face in church, whether it be one of the
missionaries investigators or just a visitor, say hi to them!! Go up,
introduce yourself and just be a friend, because a lot of those people
have only a few people (probably just the missonaries) that they
actually know, so just having a friend can make a world of difference
with their experience.
Oh goodness, I don't think
I've talked about our cute little Ági. She is a little néni (old woman)
who we teach weekly. The Elders tracted into her last transfer, but with
her schedule and such, we decided that we would meet with her, but oh
man....can you say delicious food?!! Every time we go over there, she
just makes SUPER good food and we walk out of there SO stuffed. We can
barely walk, but she is just super cute. She made us rokott krumpli this
time and then made this really good diós and alma dessert. It was super
good! We had a good lesson with her. She lives in a ten story
building, but there are two bedrooms in her house, and well interesting
arrangement, she rents the other bedroom that she doesn't use to this
family, or rather, this father and his son. His girlfriend comes over a
lot, and she's been having problems with them the last couple weeks so
we talked to her about they can maybe resolve their conflict and instead
of just being mad and avoiding their situation they could instead sit
down and talk about things and maybe resolve the conflict.I mean let's
be real, just being mad but never trying to fix the situation gets you
nowhere, so hopefully that get's all fixed.
HAHA! Oh
Gosh, I almost forgot, so we went and did look up's the other day (when
we go and look up less active members). We had heard a lot about this
certain Néni, so we decided to look her up. It only took us an hour to
actually find her house, but we were SO glad we did. Okay, listen, so we
walk up to the csengő (door bell--outside of the ten story) and ring
her. She answers and I explain to her that we are the missionaries and
all she said was "jöjjetek be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" Not going to lie, I was a
little worried that she'd be a little crazy, we get to her door and
just as we are about to knock she opens the door and she's this cute
little short néni. Oh my goodness, she says "gyertek! (come in)" We sit
down and the first thing she says to us is that "my boots were NOT
good!" Then she goes into this long story about how she bought boots
from one of the stores in the mall, but they weren't comfortable so she
tried to take them back, but they wouldn't take them back. It was
probably the most detailed, long story I have ever heard in my life and
not to mention here is this seventy-five year old woman making all these
hand motions and pretty much acting out the whole story out. Oh gosh,
it was just so dang funny! This lady is pretty much active, but the
weather is hard on her body and that's why she's not been coming to
church, but in the summer she was an active member. We talked to her a
few times about someone coming to bring her to church. Hopefully she
can, but not going to lie, we were about to give up giving up trying to
find her building because where we thought it was, it wasn't then when
we thought we were in the area that it was at, we weren't. We searched a
long time for it, but we finally found it, and i'm glad we did and
didn't give up because in some way, I think she needed our visit, but we
too needed a good conversation with her. We had a good talk with her!
We felt the spirit really strongly and we both went out of the program
feeling good. God puts people in our life, who has big impacts in our
lives, he knows why, even though we don't always know. Sok Szeretettel,
Whitaker Nővér
The first picture is with one of our investigators, he has a cool
Spalding coat from the Székesfehérvár basketball team, I commented on it
and he asked me if I wanted to try it on so I said, Hey, why not...
Second
Picture is just of my companion and I in a little kiddie ride in the
Plaza. Nobody was in the Plaza because it was New Years Day so we
decided to jump in it and take a silly picture.
Monday, January 5, 2015
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My dad informed me this
week, that the bishopric (in my ward back home, I'm guessing) asked him
to talk about missionary work and about some of I've learned and some
things I do, as a missionary in the Hungary Budapest Mission. I figured I
would just make that the topic of my blog email this week. I know...
I've been out for almost ten months and I'm just now getting these
things out, but hey, better late than never, right?
Honestly, I'm not a very good writer, so don't be surprised if this email is everywhere!!
What do I do in Hungary?
We spend a lot of time finding, my companion and I have about ten people in our "investigator pool" right now. Ten active investigators. Five of those ten are progressing. Lately it's been really hard to meet with people because of the Holidays and such. There are many methods of finding that we can do here. We tract (knock on doors--ten story buildings with five doors on each floor, give or take), street (walk on the street), table (set up a table, put flyers on it and talk to people walking by), bus find (ride buses and talk to people). Those are our main sources of finding. We are expected to get ten hours of finding time in a week. That sounds like a lot, but really, it's not. We usually don't have a problem achieving that. Time goes by super fast, when you tract a few ten stories or ride a few buses to get somewhere else in the city. The rest of the time is teaching programs to people. We don't have a limit of how often we can meet with anyone, so sometimes we have one program a week with a certain investigator sometimes we have three programs a week with the same investigator. It all just depends. We usually meet at the branch house, which is in a rented out building on the second floor. It's nothing fancy, but
As far as on my pdays and stuff.
Sheesh, we do everything. We recently went to a members house for Christmas and they live really close to the Balaton, which is like the biggest lake in Central Europe. It's beautiful and huge. Christmas Eve, my companion and I were off, but there was nothing open so we decided to go shoot some hoops at a basketball court for a few hours. We met a really nice little boy, who just started learning how to play soccer. Good thing my companion is super good at Soccer. They played together for a while, and then I just shot hoops. You know... this is what we do in Hungary. Then again later, we met with him and played again. it was super good. On Christmas we had dinner with the Elders and then skpyed our familes. It was so great to see my family!
New Years, our branch had a New Years Eve party, we eat, and did karoke. It was super fun! We had a really really good time! Then the day after, we got some of our branch members and investigators together and we went ice skating. It was super fun.
What have I learned?
Okay, first of all, I've been in Hungary for almost eight months! I can't believe how fast the time has gone by. I am officially running downhill now. I passed my half-way mark last year, and as I reflect on the things that I have thusfar experienced I am blown away and humbled by them. Hungary is absolutely stunning. It's truly beautiful, filled with much history. I look around me everyday and am just in awe with my surroundings. I could talk all day about the things that I've seen or places I've been, but really, I didn't come here to enjoy the scenary or be a tourist. I came here to be a missionary, and as a missionary our purpose is to "invite others to come unto Christ by helping them receive the restored gospel, through faith in Jesus Christ and His atonement, repentance, baptism, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost and Enduring to the End." Although, I'll admit it's easy to forget your purpose as a missionary. I can't even tell you about all the cool people I've met since I've been here. For example, right now I am in Székesfehérvár (second transfer here--fourteen weeks and counting). It's safe to say that I've gotten really comfortable with the area and people here. We actually meet with a lot of young people right now, and I'll admit, when you talk to young people on a daily or weekly basis, the desire to just hang out with them is there. We talk often and they're just so willing to help us with the language and anything we need. All of our investigators at one time or another have said to us, if you need ANYTHING just call me! It's so nice! I often have to remind myself that I'm not out here to make friends, but I am here to teach them about their Heavenly Father who loves them so much. I really love these people and I want them to find the same peace, joy and happiness that I receive from this gospel, so that's what keeps me going and as much as I would love to be best friends with all of my investigators, and just chill with them, it's equally important that they form that relationship with someone who knows them better than I do, better than I could ever know them, honestly.
I want to share a quick experience that I had a few weeks ago when I went to the Pünkosdi church with our SI. First of all, all of you who don't know SI, he's probably the sweetest person ever. He loves God and Jesus Christ and has grown up in a very religious family. When he invited us to his church, I was excited. I really wanted to go. Before we went, he explained to us in the car what it would be like, and what they usually do. It made us feel a lot more comfortable knowing what was going to happen than to just go into it blindly. As we pulled up to the church and SI parked the car, we walk to the door and SI goes in first, I think we were expected because when we walked in, everybody (literally) came up to us and said hi to us. The younger people (our age) all came up and shook our hands and were just so incredibly nice. I was so amazed. Everybody was just soooo nice. We sat down and after the service all of the younger people came and pulled their chairs next to us and we ended up just talking for an additional hour. They had a lot of questions about us and what we do as missionaries, etc. When my companion and I went home that following night, we realized how important it is on the missionaries and members part to make the investigator feel welcomed. I can count a number of times that, I saw somebody new back at home, at church and I just said to myself, "hmm, I've never seen her before...she must be visiting," and that's it. I didn't make any attempt to say hi or introduce myself or anything. I have seen this in Hungary too, but we all do it. I just know now how important it is to make people feel welcome. Having your investigator come to church is one of the greatest moments in your teaching, because it really shows their faith, in what your teaching and in their Heavenly Father. I would hate to bring an investigator to church and then have them go back to their friends afterwards and say, "Yeah, I went to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and nobody, besides the missionaries said hi to me..."
Now that I've been in Hungary for a while, I know how much harder the work is when members do not participate in missionary work. It makes it a lot harder. When people willingly help, they show their support and love for the missionaries, but more importantly God and His work.
I wear a name tag, everyday that says Whitaker Nővér and it doesn't just have my name on it, but it has Jézus Krisztus on it as well. By wearing my name tag, I represent Christ just like every member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Shouldn't we all be Christ-like in words, thoughts and actions? I've met too many people here that have been offended by someone's words or actions. Be smart and act as if Jesus Christ was standing beside you.
Do you notice the difference in length. I definitely feel like I've learned a lot more than I've done. You definitely learn a lot in the mission field. I'm so grateful for the opportunity to serve a mission. It's been one of the biggest blessings in my life!
I could stay here all day and tell you about experience and lessons I've learned since being in the beautiful country of Hungary, When I get back I will definitely fill all of you in! These are just the ones that come to my mind now. I hope you enjoyed it!
Thanks everyone for emails, letters and the support
Szeretlek benneteket,
Whitaker Növér
Honestly, I'm not a very good writer, so don't be surprised if this email is everywhere!!
What do I do in Hungary?
We spend a lot of time finding, my companion and I have about ten people in our "investigator pool" right now. Ten active investigators. Five of those ten are progressing. Lately it's been really hard to meet with people because of the Holidays and such. There are many methods of finding that we can do here. We tract (knock on doors--ten story buildings with five doors on each floor, give or take), street (walk on the street), table (set up a table, put flyers on it and talk to people walking by), bus find (ride buses and talk to people). Those are our main sources of finding. We are expected to get ten hours of finding time in a week. That sounds like a lot, but really, it's not. We usually don't have a problem achieving that. Time goes by super fast, when you tract a few ten stories or ride a few buses to get somewhere else in the city. The rest of the time is teaching programs to people. We don't have a limit of how often we can meet with anyone, so sometimes we have one program a week with a certain investigator sometimes we have three programs a week with the same investigator. It all just depends. We usually meet at the branch house, which is in a rented out building on the second floor. It's nothing fancy, but
As far as on my pdays and stuff.
Sheesh, we do everything. We recently went to a members house for Christmas and they live really close to the Balaton, which is like the biggest lake in Central Europe. It's beautiful and huge. Christmas Eve, my companion and I were off, but there was nothing open so we decided to go shoot some hoops at a basketball court for a few hours. We met a really nice little boy, who just started learning how to play soccer. Good thing my companion is super good at Soccer. They played together for a while, and then I just shot hoops. You know... this is what we do in Hungary. Then again later, we met with him and played again. it was super good. On Christmas we had dinner with the Elders and then skpyed our familes. It was so great to see my family!
New Years, our branch had a New Years Eve party, we eat, and did karoke. It was super fun! We had a really really good time! Then the day after, we got some of our branch members and investigators together and we went ice skating. It was super fun.
What have I learned?
Okay, first of all, I've been in Hungary for almost eight months! I can't believe how fast the time has gone by. I am officially running downhill now. I passed my half-way mark last year, and as I reflect on the things that I have thusfar experienced I am blown away and humbled by them. Hungary is absolutely stunning. It's truly beautiful, filled with much history. I look around me everyday and am just in awe with my surroundings. I could talk all day about the things that I've seen or places I've been, but really, I didn't come here to enjoy the scenary or be a tourist. I came here to be a missionary, and as a missionary our purpose is to "invite others to come unto Christ by helping them receive the restored gospel, through faith in Jesus Christ and His atonement, repentance, baptism, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost and Enduring to the End." Although, I'll admit it's easy to forget your purpose as a missionary. I can't even tell you about all the cool people I've met since I've been here. For example, right now I am in Székesfehérvár (second transfer here--fourteen weeks and counting). It's safe to say that I've gotten really comfortable with the area and people here. We actually meet with a lot of young people right now, and I'll admit, when you talk to young people on a daily or weekly basis, the desire to just hang out with them is there. We talk often and they're just so willing to help us with the language and anything we need. All of our investigators at one time or another have said to us, if you need ANYTHING just call me! It's so nice! I often have to remind myself that I'm not out here to make friends, but I am here to teach them about their Heavenly Father who loves them so much. I really love these people and I want them to find the same peace, joy and happiness that I receive from this gospel, so that's what keeps me going and as much as I would love to be best friends with all of my investigators, and just chill with them, it's equally important that they form that relationship with someone who knows them better than I do, better than I could ever know them, honestly.
A
little about teaching: We are actually teaching two people right now,
that are super religious. One of them is baptista (baptist), we will
call him (SA) and the other is pünkosdi (pentacostal), we will call him
(SI). It's not been easy. We actually went to our pünksodi investigators
church the other week and it was really really interesting. SI's dad is
actually the preacher and the leader of the pünksodi church here in
Székes and we talked with him on the way over there and he was telling
us about how God told him that he needed to build a pünkosdi church in
Székesfehérvár. When we teach about the Restoration of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-Day saints, we obviously talk about prophets and
the two things God gives prophets which are Revelation and the power to
act in Jesus Christ's name. We have definitely had interesting
conversations with SI. Of course we respect each others beliefs and have
an open conversation about things, but recently we've just had a rough
time. SA is another one of our investigators that is very devoted to his
church, but he investigated the church for a while, he had a set
baptism date and everything and then a few days before his baptism he
called it off and said that he needed to think, then joined the baptist
church. Basically, my point with all this is that I've met a lot of
people here in Hungary who are very devoted to their religion.
Two-thirds of the people in Hungary are Roman Catholic. Then, of course,
there are other religions too. I think I've learned that people in
Hungary are very open to speaking with us even if they're another
denomination, and they're interested in what we believe as Mormons. SA
and SI have both told us that they are open to speak about our beliefs
and such but that they would like to stay baptist/pünkosdi. I heard
before I came to Hungary that Hungarians are closed off and not very
open, but honestly, from all my experiences so far, I feel like they are
more open than people give them credit for. There have been a few times
that my companion and I would go tracting and we would tract into
somebody who is roman catholic, methodist, baptist, some other religion,
but we would still talk about the Book of Mormon and at the end we
ended up giving them a copy of the Book of Mormon with them commiting to
read it. Do we always get a phone number or let in from it? No, but
they accepted it.
We have another investigator, we'll call him NT. NT met with the missionaries about three years ago. The first contact he had with the missionaries was on the street when he had an Angol Ora (English Class) flyer given to him by a couple of elders. He told us his story and it's quite interesting. Three years ago, he got an English Class flyer, he put it in his pocket, with the intent of throwing it away when he got home. When he got home, he reached into this pocket and pulled out the paper. When he went to throw it away, he said, he just couldn't let go of it. Eventually he came to English Class for the first time and met the missionaries, he felt really good when he was around them, eventually it became winter time and the weather got really bad, but NT still wanted to go to English Class, even when it was blizzarding. He just had such a strong desire to go to English Class. He told us of one time that the weather was so bad. It was snowing and the wind was blowing really hard, but he knew he needed to go to English Class. He went out and the wind would literally blow him off his feet, causing him to fall on his butt, on the ice. He said he literally slid all the way to English Class on his butt. He would get up a little ways, cautiously walk on the ice, and then it would blow him down and he would slide a little way, he did that all the way to the Branch House. He was the only one who came to English Class during that weather, but he came. The missionaries had a lot of one on one time with him, and started talking to him about the gospel. Although he hasn't yet accepted the gospel, he still to this day believes that God gave him those missionaries, who gave him the English Class flyer and since that, his life has changed a lot. We are still teaching him, but he realizes that he has changed since meeting with the missionaries, a good change.
There are people here in Hungary searching for the truth and their run-in with the missionaries is not just an "accident." God knows, he knows who we need to find and who needs to find us and then he provides a way so that happens.
We have another investigator, we'll call him NT. NT met with the missionaries about three years ago. The first contact he had with the missionaries was on the street when he had an Angol Ora (English Class) flyer given to him by a couple of elders. He told us his story and it's quite interesting. Three years ago, he got an English Class flyer, he put it in his pocket, with the intent of throwing it away when he got home. When he got home, he reached into this pocket and pulled out the paper. When he went to throw it away, he said, he just couldn't let go of it. Eventually he came to English Class for the first time and met the missionaries, he felt really good when he was around them, eventually it became winter time and the weather got really bad, but NT still wanted to go to English Class, even when it was blizzarding. He just had such a strong desire to go to English Class. He told us of one time that the weather was so bad. It was snowing and the wind was blowing really hard, but he knew he needed to go to English Class. He went out and the wind would literally blow him off his feet, causing him to fall on his butt, on the ice. He said he literally slid all the way to English Class on his butt. He would get up a little ways, cautiously walk on the ice, and then it would blow him down and he would slide a little way, he did that all the way to the Branch House. He was the only one who came to English Class during that weather, but he came. The missionaries had a lot of one on one time with him, and started talking to him about the gospel. Although he hasn't yet accepted the gospel, he still to this day believes that God gave him those missionaries, who gave him the English Class flyer and since that, his life has changed a lot. We are still teaching him, but he realizes that he has changed since meeting with the missionaries, a good change.
There are people here in Hungary searching for the truth and their run-in with the missionaries is not just an "accident." God knows, he knows who we need to find and who needs to find us and then he provides a way so that happens.
I want to talk a little about member missionary work.
EVERY MEMBER IS A MISSIONARY AND SHOULD BE ENGAGED IN THIS WORK. I
have a HUGE testimony of member missionary work and how important it
is. I'll admit, when I was back at home I didn't go on splits too much
with the missionaries, I didn't give referrals to the missionaries back
at home, but I SHOULD HAVE. Us, as members of The Church of Jesus Christ
of Latter-Day Saints , have the responsibility to bring others unto
Christ. One of my favorite general conference talks of my life is Elder
Ballards "Following Up" talk in the April 2014 General Conference. He talks about how each member can be a missionary he says this, "To
help you in this process, I invite all members, regardless of your
current calling or level of activity in the Church, to obtain a copy of Preach My Gospel. It
is available through our distribution centers and also online. The
online version can be read or downloaded at no cost. It is a guidebook
for missionary work—which means it is a guidebook for all of us. Read
it, study it, and then apply what you learn to help you understand how
to bring souls to Christ through invitation and follow-up. As President
Thomas S. Monson has said, “Now is the time for members and missionaries
to come together, to work together, to labor in the Lord’s vineyard to
bring souls unto Him.”I love this so much. You don't need a black
nametag to be a missionary in this church. Just by our actions alone as
members, we can serve the Lord as missionaries. II want to share a quick experience that I had a few weeks ago when I went to the Pünkosdi church with our SI. First of all, all of you who don't know SI, he's probably the sweetest person ever. He loves God and Jesus Christ and has grown up in a very religious family. When he invited us to his church, I was excited. I really wanted to go. Before we went, he explained to us in the car what it would be like, and what they usually do. It made us feel a lot more comfortable knowing what was going to happen than to just go into it blindly. As we pulled up to the church and SI parked the car, we walk to the door and SI goes in first, I think we were expected because when we walked in, everybody (literally) came up to us and said hi to us. The younger people (our age) all came up and shook our hands and were just so incredibly nice. I was so amazed. Everybody was just soooo nice. We sat down and after the service all of the younger people came and pulled their chairs next to us and we ended up just talking for an additional hour. They had a lot of questions about us and what we do as missionaries, etc. When my companion and I went home that following night, we realized how important it is on the missionaries and members part to make the investigator feel welcomed. I can count a number of times that, I saw somebody new back at home, at church and I just said to myself, "hmm, I've never seen her before...she must be visiting," and that's it. I didn't make any attempt to say hi or introduce myself or anything. I have seen this in Hungary too, but we all do it. I just know now how important it is to make people feel welcome. Having your investigator come to church is one of the greatest moments in your teaching, because it really shows their faith, in what your teaching and in their Heavenly Father. I would hate to bring an investigator to church and then have them go back to their friends afterwards and say, "Yeah, I went to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and nobody, besides the missionaries said hi to me..."
Now that I've been in Hungary for a while, I know how much harder the work is when members do not participate in missionary work. It makes it a lot harder. When people willingly help, they show their support and love for the missionaries, but more importantly God and His work.
I wear a name tag, everyday that says Whitaker Nővér and it doesn't just have my name on it, but it has Jézus Krisztus on it as well. By wearing my name tag, I represent Christ just like every member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Shouldn't we all be Christ-like in words, thoughts and actions? I've met too many people here that have been offended by someone's words or actions. Be smart and act as if Jesus Christ was standing beside you.
Do you notice the difference in length. I definitely feel like I've learned a lot more than I've done. You definitely learn a lot in the mission field. I'm so grateful for the opportunity to serve a mission. It's been one of the biggest blessings in my life!
I could stay here all day and tell you about experience and lessons I've learned since being in the beautiful country of Hungary, When I get back I will definitely fill all of you in! These are just the ones that come to my mind now. I hope you enjoyed it!
Thanks everyone for emails, letters and the support
Szeretlek benneteket,
Whitaker Növér
Boldog Karácsonyt és Új Évet!
My dad informed me this week, that the bishopric (in my ward back home, I'm guessing) asked him to talk about missionary work and about some of I've learned and some things I do, as a missionary in the Hungary Budapest Mission. I figured I would just make that the topic of my blog email this week. I know... I've been out for almost ten months and I'm just now getting these things out, but hey, better late than never, right?
Honestly, I'm not a very good writer, so don't be surprised if this email is everywhere!!
What do I do in Hungary?
We spend a lot of time finding, my companion and I have about ten people in our "investigator pool" right now. Ten active investigators. Five of those ten are progressing. Lately it's been really hard to meet with people because of the Holidays and such. There are many methods of finding that we can do here. We tract (knock on doors--ten story buildings with five doors on each floor, give or take), street (walk on the street), table (set up a table, put flyers on it and talk to people walking by), bus find (ride buses and talk to people). Those are our main sources of finding. We are expected to get ten hours of finding time in a week. That sounds like a lot, but really, it's not. We usually don't have a problem achieving that. Time goes by super fast, when you tract a few ten stories or ride a few buses to get somewhere else in the city. The rest of the time is teaching programs to people. We don't have a limit of how often we can meet with anyone, so sometimes we have one program a week with a certain investigator sometimes we have three programs a week with the same investigator. It all just depends. We usually meet at the branch house, which is in a rented out building on the second floor. It's nothing fancy, but
As far as on my pdays and stuff.
Sheesh, we do everything. We recently went to a members house for Christmas and they live really close to the Balaton, which is like the biggest lake in Central Europe. It's beautiful and huge. Christmas Eve, my companion and I were off, but there was nothing open so we decided to go shoot some hoops at a basketball court for a few hours. We met a really nice little boy, who just started learning how to play soccer. Good thing my companion is super good at Soccer. They played together for a while, and then I just shot hoops. You know... this is what we do in Hungary. Then again later, we met with him and played again. it was super good. On Christmas we had dinner with the Elders and then skpyed our familes. It was so great to see my family!
New Years, our branch had a New Years Eve party, we eat, and did karoke. It was super fun! We had a really really good time! Then the day after, we got some of our branch members and investigators together and we went ice skating. It was super fun.
What have I learned?
Okay, first of all, I've been in Hungary for almost eight months! I can't believe how fast the time has gone by. I am officially running downhill now. I passed my half-way mark last year, and as I reflect on the things that I have thusfar experienced I am blown away and humbled by them. Hungary is absolutely stunning. It's truly beautiful, filled with much history. I look around me everyday and am just in awe with my surroundings. I could talk all day about the things that I've seen or places I've been, but really, I didn't come here to enjoy the scenary or be a tourist. I came here to be a missionary, and as a missionary our purpose is to "invite others to come unto Christ by helping them receive the restored gospel, through faith in Jesus Christ and His atonement, repentance, baptism, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost and Enduring to the End." Although, I'll admit it's easy to forget your purpose as a missionary. I can't even tell you about all the cool people I've met since I've been here. For example, right now I am in Székesfehérvár (second transfer here--fourteen weeks and counting). It's safe to say that I've gotten really comfortable with the area and people here. We actually meet with a lot of young people right now, and I'll admit, when you talk to young people on a daily or weekly basis, the desire to just hang out with them is there. We talk often and they're just so willing to help us with the language and anything we need. All of our investigators at one time or another have said to us, if you need ANYTHING just call me! It's so nice! I often have to remind myself that I'm not out here to make friends, but I am here to teach them about their Heavenly Father who loves them so much. I really love these people and I want them to find the same peace, joy and happiness that I receive from this gospel, so that's what keeps me going and as much as I would love to be best friends with all of my investigators, and just chill with them, it's equally important that they form that relationship with someone who knows them better than I do, better than I could ever know them, honestly.
A
little about teaching: We are actually teaching two people right now,
that are super religious. One of them is baptista (baptist), we will
call him (SA) and the other is pünkosdi (pentacostal), we will call him
(SI). It's not been easy. We actually went to our pünksodi investigators
church the other week and it was really really interesting. SI's dad is
actually the preacher and the leader of the pünksodi church here in
Székes and we talked with him on the way over there and he was telling
us about how God told him that he needed to build a pünkosdi church in
Székesfehérvár. When we teach about the Restoration of The Church of
Jesus Christ of Latter-Day saints, we obviously talk about prophets and
the two things God gives prophets which are Revelation and the power to
act in Jesus Christ's name. We have definitely had interesting
conversations with SI. Of course we respect each others beliefs and have
an open conversation about things, but recently we've just had a rough
time. SA is another one of our investigators that is very devoted to his
church, but he investigated the church for a while, he had a set
baptism date and everything and then a few days before his baptism he
called it off and said that he needed to think, then joined the baptist
church. Basically, my point with all this is that I've met a lot of
people here in Hungary who are very devoted to their religion.
Two-thirds of the people in Hungary are Roman Catholic. Then, of course,
there are other religions too. I think I've learned that people in
Hungary are very open to speaking with us even if they're another
denomination, and they're interested in what we believe as Mormons. SA
and SI have both told us that they are open to speak about our beliefs
and such but that they would like to stay baptist/pünkosdi. I heard
before I came to Hungary that Hungarians are closed off and not very
open, but honestly, from all my experiences so far, I feel like they are
more open than people give them credit for. There have been a few times
that my companion and I would go tracting and we would tract into
somebody who is roman catholic, methodist, baptist, some other religion,
but we would still talk about the Book of Mormon and at the end we
ended up giving them a copy of the Book of Mormon with them commiting to
read it. Do we always get a phone number or let in from it? No, but
they accepted it.
We have another investigator, we'll call him NT. NT met with the missionaries about three years ago. The first contact he had with the missionaries was on the street when he had an Angol Ora (English Class) flyer given to him by a couple of elders. He told us his story and it's quite interesting. Three years ago, he got an English Class flyer, he put it in his pocket, with the intent of throwing it away when he got home. When he got home, he reached into this pocket and pulled out the paper. When he went to throw it away, he said, he just couldn't let go of it. Eventually he came to English Class for the first time and met the missionaries, he felt really good when he was around them, eventually it became winter time and the weather got really bad, but NT still wanted to go to English Class, even when it was blizzarding. He just had such a strong desire to go to English Class. He told us of one time that the weather was so bad. It was snowing and the wind was blowing really hard, but he knew he needed to go to English Class. He went out and the wind would literally blow him off his feet, causing him to fall on his butt, on the ice. He said he literally slid all the way to English Class on his butt. He would get up a little ways, cautiously walk on the ice, and then it would blow him down and he would slide a little way, he did that all the way to the Branch House. He was the only one who came to English Class during that weather, but he came. The missionaries had a lot of one on one time with him, and started talking to him about the gospel. Although he hasn't yet accepted the gospel, he still to this day believes that God gave him those missionaries, who gave him the English Class flyer and since that, his life has changed a lot. We are still teaching him, but he realizes that he has changed since meeting with the missionaries, a good change.
There are people here in Hungary searching for the truth and their run-in with the missionaries is not just an "accident." God knows, he knows who we need to find and who needs to find us and then he provides a way so that happens.
We have another investigator, we'll call him NT. NT met with the missionaries about three years ago. The first contact he had with the missionaries was on the street when he had an Angol Ora (English Class) flyer given to him by a couple of elders. He told us his story and it's quite interesting. Three years ago, he got an English Class flyer, he put it in his pocket, with the intent of throwing it away when he got home. When he got home, he reached into this pocket and pulled out the paper. When he went to throw it away, he said, he just couldn't let go of it. Eventually he came to English Class for the first time and met the missionaries, he felt really good when he was around them, eventually it became winter time and the weather got really bad, but NT still wanted to go to English Class, even when it was blizzarding. He just had such a strong desire to go to English Class. He told us of one time that the weather was so bad. It was snowing and the wind was blowing really hard, but he knew he needed to go to English Class. He went out and the wind would literally blow him off his feet, causing him to fall on his butt, on the ice. He said he literally slid all the way to English Class on his butt. He would get up a little ways, cautiously walk on the ice, and then it would blow him down and he would slide a little way, he did that all the way to the Branch House. He was the only one who came to English Class during that weather, but he came. The missionaries had a lot of one on one time with him, and started talking to him about the gospel. Although he hasn't yet accepted the gospel, he still to this day believes that God gave him those missionaries, who gave him the English Class flyer and since that, his life has changed a lot. We are still teaching him, but he realizes that he has changed since meeting with the missionaries, a good change.
There are people here in Hungary searching for the truth and their run-in with the missionaries is not just an "accident." God knows, he knows who we need to find and who needs to find us and then he provides a way so that happens.
I want to talk a little about member missionary work.
EVERY MEMBER IS A MISSIONARY AND SHOULD BE ENGAGED IN THIS WORK. I
have a HUGE testimony of member missionary work and how important it
is. I'll admit, when I was back at home I didn't go on splits too much
with the missionaries, I didn't give referrals to the missionaries back
at home, but I SHOULD HAVE. Us, as members of The Church of Jesus Christ
of Latter-Day Saints , have the responsibility to bring others unto
Christ. One of my favorite general conference talks of my life is Elder
Ballards "Following Up" talk in the April 2014 General Conference. He talks about how each member can be a missionary he says this, "To
help you in this process, I invite all members, regardless of your
current calling or level of activity in the Church, to obtain a copy of Preach My Gospel. It
is available through our distribution centers and also online. The
online version can be read or downloaded at no cost. It is a guidebook
for missionary work—which means it is a guidebook for all of us. Read
it, study it, and then apply what you learn to help you understand how
to bring souls to Christ through invitation and follow-up. As President
Thomas S. Monson has said, “Now is the time for members and missionaries
to come together, to work together, to labor in the Lord’s vineyard to
bring souls unto Him.”I love this so much. You don't need a black
nametag to be a missionary in this church. Just by our actions alone as
members, we can serve the Lord as missionaries. II want to share a quick experience that I had a few weeks ago when I went to the Pünkosdi church with our SI. First of all, all of you who don't know SI, he's probably the sweetest person ever. He loves God and Jesus Christ and has grown up in a very religious family. When he invited us to his church, I was excited. I really wanted to go. Before we went, he explained to us in the car what it would be like, and what they usually do. It made us feel a lot more comfortable knowing what was going to happen than to just go into it blindly. As we pulled up to the church and SI parked the car, we walk to the door and SI goes in first, I think we were expected because when we walked in, everybody (literally) came up to us and said hi to us. The younger people (our age) all came up and shook our hands and were just so incredibly nice. I was so amazed. Everybody was just soooo nice. We sat down and after the service all of the younger people came and pulled their chairs next to us and we ended up just talking for an additional hour. They had a lot of questions about us and what we do as missionaries, etc. When my companion and I went home that following night, we realized how important it is on the missionaries and members part to make the investigator feel welcomed. I can count a number of times that, I saw somebody new back at home, at church and I just said to myself, "hmm, I've never seen her before...she must be visiting," and that's it. I didn't make any attempt to say hi or introduce myself or anything. I have seen this in Hungary too, but we all do it. I just know now how important it is to make people feel welcome. Having your investigator come to church is one of the greatest moments in your teaching, because it really shows their faith, in what your teaching and in their Heavenly Father. I would hate to bring an investigator to church and then have them go back to their friends afterwards and say, "Yeah, I went to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and nobody, besides the missionaries said hi to me..."
Now that I've been in Hungary for a while, I know how much harder the work is when members do not participate in missionary work. It makes it a lot harder. When people willingly help, they show their support and love for the missionaries, but more importantly God and His work.
I wear a name tag, everyday that says Whitaker Nővér and it doesn't just have my name on it, but it has Jézus Krisztus on it as well. By wearing my name tag, I represent Christ just like every member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Shouldn't we all be Christ-like in words, thoughts and actions? I've met too many people here that have been offended by someone's words or actions. Be smart and act as if Jesus Christ was standing beside you.
Do you notice the difference in length. I definitely feel like I've learned a lot more than I've done. You definitely learn a lot in the mission field. I'm so grateful for the opportunity to serve a mission. It's been one of the biggest blessings in my life!
I could stay here all day and tell you about experience and lessons I've learned since being in the beautiful country of Hungary, When I get back I will definitely fill all of you in! These are just the ones that come to my mind now. I hope you enjoyed it!
Thanks everyone for emails, letters and the support
Szeretlek benneteket,
Whitaker Növér
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